Middle Manager Series Wrap Up – Grounded in the Middle | Middle Management Blog

Grounded in the Middle

By Beth Schaefer

I started this series by talking about how much I enjoy my job being Stuck in the Middle.  And, despite all the Middle Management dilemmas that I have been writing about, I still love my role in middle management.

I hope that the series has helped middle managers by:

  1. Affirming your importance in your organization
  2. Acknowledging the work you do
  3. Providing ideas on how to sustain your quality performance

And maybe even…

  1. Providing information that you can use to influence your organization to appreciate you or support you with process that helps, rather than hinders, your work.

As I think about how to “tie a bow” on this series, let me leave you with some tips to build resiliency and stay grounded as you continue in your role of being the shock absorbers for your organizations during these times of change, ambiguity, and added pressure.

7 Suggested Resiliency Practices for Middle Managers

  1.  Name your stressors

Acknowledge what is hard and difficult about your work and do not pretend that it is easy.

For me, new software implementations continue to disrupt.  They require my team to muck through the unknown often only equipped with open-source videos from YouTube, eventually, define new processes that works, draw up a swim lane, streamline the new processes, and then document the processes.  It just takes a lot of time and the gains are not always clear.

2. Build a support network

Connect with peers who are also middle managers and understand the challenges of the role.

For me, I have a fellow Middle Manager that does a Zoom coffee chat with me about every 3 weeks.  We are remote workers who live in different states, but that does not prevent us from being mutual mentors.  I also have some leaders higher up in the organization that I lean on to help me navigate the office politics – something I would avoid entirely if I could.

3. Manage Your Energy

Identify what drains you and what fuels you.  Consider bookending your days, when possible, with the fuels.

For me, whenever possible, I like to start my day (not by checking email because there is plenty of research on how that is not productive) with the fuel of writing.  I sit quietly with coffee and write these articles, write website content, write training proposals, write project plans, write procedures… there is actually quite a bit of writing as a middle manager.   I like to end my days using the fuel of my people with team meetings or with direct report check-ins.  These often include laughter and intentional naming of positive nuggets at work or in life for daily mini-celebrations at the end of the workday.

4. Rely on Routine

Build routines so that you do not need to put energy into managing every minute of each day.

In addition to project management software to help keep me organized, I have a weekly to-do list that I fill out each Friday afternoon for the next week.  This to-do list comes with built in routines – such as sending a project update email to my instructors each Wednesday morning.  The easier I can make routine things, the more brain power I have for the unique challenges.

5. Normalize Setbacks

Talk with your team about past successes that first started with setbacks.

For me, this is hard.  I can be easily discouraged.  I sometimes need to rely on my team to help me remember when something that is optimized now was once a struggle that experienced lots of stops and starts before “sticking.”  Our Expert Insights webinars were once irregular, postponed, and not well-publicized, but now they are part of our department framework.

6. Practice Space and Grace

Provide a safe space – emotionally – for your team to vent emotions.  Provide grace for mistakes with support to prevent mistake repetition.

For me, I find it much easier to give others Space and Grace than myself. However, the beauty of Space and Grace is that when you give it others, they give it back to you.

7. Watch free IPD webinars on Building Resiliency

Use the webinars for yourself, but send the links to your team members who may need some respite from workplace pressures. Show them you care.

And finally…

While this is not a researched tactic, sometimes I ask myself, “Who else could do this role with my legacy of knowledge of the products and process, my passion for the work and quality customer service, my intentional efforts to develop the people around me, and my dedication to this role and not the next one?” And, seeing the short list, I keep moving forward to tackle the challenges of the Middle.

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Back to School  – Investing in Your Own Growth and Your Team’s Too

By Beth Schaefer

Middle Managers seldom have spare time, so how does taking professional development time and spending less time on operations equal more success?

In fall, my thoughts return to back-to-school. Sure, I work at a university so that makes sense, but I also have family members returning to school; my neighborhood is gearing up for school; and I am shopping back-to-school sales since everything is considered a back-to-school supply and is offered at a great price.

That makes fall a good time to ponder your own growth and development. As Middle Managers, we tend to focus on making sure that those around us have what they need to be successful, but we do not always take the time to think about what we need to be better at our work. Experience and doing are wonderful teachers, but at some point, getting information from outside your silo can help you see new and better ways to approach your work.

One of my favorite soccer coaches always said that practice makes permanent, not perfect. If you have been doing something the same way a long time, you may be on autopilot and not seeing that you could be better. For many of us in middle management, those neglected skills tend to be coaching and leading. Many of us were promoted for our technical expertise and did not spend much time learning how to motivate and engage people in their work.

Of course, I would love to see you take some professional development workshops from IPD, but here are some additional ideas to consider:

  1. Set a quarterly learning goal. Finish Q 4 strong by setting a goal to learn more about 1 leadership strategy or technical skill.
  2. Find a peer mentor. Look for another leader who is willing to meet and discuss middle manager dilemmas and solutions. Perhaps, review some of the articles in this series as a springboard to discussion.
  3. Create learning bursts for your team. By preparing a tip or strategy to help your team and presenting it at team meetings, you will also learn that tip or strategy better. One of our recorded webinars could be a starting point.

 

If you are like me, and still feeling guilty about focusing on your own growth instead of your work, here are some gains your team will get from your professional development:

  • You model curiosity. One of the demands of the workplace is that we are critical thinkers. Taking time to learn new things demonstrates that curiosity is a desirable quality and the first step to being a critical-thinking problem-solver.
  • You show the importance of learning. Celebrate skill wins in your team meetings. Most organizations have options for professional development: money available for training and certificates, free internal training options, or tuition reimbursement. By using these options and talking about what you are learning in team meetings, you will help your team be aware of steps they can take for their own professional growth.
  • You build a stronger team. While I am not a fan of trust falls or obstacle courses to build teams, I do think spending time learning together builds a stronger team. The team not only learns new skills, but taking people out of their everyday workspace, production goals, and to-do lists, creates opportunity to learn more about each other in a relaxed and fun environment. Conversations create empathy. Empathy leads to more team cooperation and collaboration when returning to the demands of the job.

Years back, there was a local radio ad that talked about developing workers. The ad addressed the question, What if I use resources to develop my team members, and they leave? Instead, the ad flipped the question and asked, What if I do not develop my team members, and they stay?

In the book Strengths Based Leadership, the author provides research that suggests that strong leaders do not approach leadership the exact same way; however, one thing they do have in common is they encourage the next generation of leaders by providing the space and grace for their team members to grow professionally and personally.

Learning isn’t a luxury; it’s a leadership necessity. Middle Managers who invest in their own professional development build stronger teams and more resilient careers.

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Workspace: Return to Office Vs Remote Office

By Beth Schaefer

Us Vs Them

For some middle managers, this is a non-issue.  You are leading a hospitality/customer service division, manufacturing, construction/installation, healthcare, or a similar field that requires all your staff to be physically on site to do their work.  For other Middle Managers, the office vs. remote workspace has become a quagmire of us vs. them.

Your Preference

My own workspace went remote a few months before the pandemic shut down all office work.  To save money on an office lease, I volunteered my department to work remotely because the majority of our interactions took place with external customers who only came to our offices for classroom training.   I often was out and about visiting companies that wanted training at their own sites, so my own office was often empty.  Even though I was convinced that I would hate being a remote worker, I made the change to be a team player for the organization to save money.

As I turned out, I love being a remote worker.

I am much much much more productive working in the solace of my home office.

  • I spend more time at my desk because I am not commuting.
  • When I go to the “break room” for more tea or coffee, I am not sidetracked with coworker conversations or office drama.
  • Even though I maintain an open-door policy, nobody from my staff ever walks in (hehehe).

I thought being remote would have me lean into my workaholic tendencies, when, in fact, I am as close as I have ever been to achieving the allusive work/life balance, or could I even say life/work balance?

And, this is part of the office vs remote dilemma for middle managers – you probably have a strong preference for your own workspace, and you need to manage that bias when you leading workspace decisions or changes.

Team Preference and Expectations

Many of you may have had similar situations.  Many of your staff started working remotely during the pandemic, and loved it while others are very excited about returning to the office.  Half of my staff was hired since the switch to the remote office with the understanding that their roles would be remote.  They would be very surprised to find out they needed to suddenly report to a physical office.

For the Middle Manager, the Return-to-Office orders are about employee engagement and retention.  When you manage to find quality workers who are reliable and productive, it is painful to have them leave because they do not see value in commuting to the office – even if it is just for a few days each week.

Find the WHY

For the Organization, the Return-to-Office orders are about their employees being… well, that is the question.  As a Middle Manager, if you can get the real WHY behind an organization’s decision, it gives you more options to navigate the situation between the declaration and your people.  See our free webinar: The Change Chart for the WHY and other change navigation tools. Getting to the root cause will help you provide solutions to navigate the Return-To-Office orders.

WHY? If your Return-To-Office is about collaboration…

“Collaboration” seems to be the go-to messaging (because who is going to say that you need less collaboration?) for return to office.   If your team is excited about being in the office and collaborating, you are good to go; if not, here are some options to try:

  1. Collect details on exactly what sort of collaboration the company is looking for – with whom and what for. Provide a plan on how you can make that happen without requiring remote workers to commute to the office.
  2. Provide examples of how alternating days in the office, or people living long distance, or workers being in different buildings still have most meetings taking place on a virtual platform even when people are in the office.
  3. If your organization insists that informal causal meetings in the breakroom are vital to collaboration, make sure your office space actually has attractive break room options. If those spaces have disappeared or are clinical and perfunctory, the collaborative conversations will not be plentiful nor fruitful.
  4. If your office is no longer there to return to – replaced by cubes or hoteling spaces so that more people can be fit into a smaller space, point to the numerous studies that show that a lack of private office space has the opposite effect of collaboration and decreases informal interaction.

WHY? If the Return-To-Office is about productivity…

If you have team members that have let you know, directly or indirectly, that they will leave if their remote status changes, here are actions you can try:

1. Ask your team to provide evidence that they are more productive working remotely than in the office. Provide that evidence to your leaders to emphasize your team’s productivity.

2. You may want to show operational savings with calculations of cost per square foot for the amount of space your team would use for proper office and desk space.

3. Talk with your own supervisor on how many people you think you will lose and make suggestions for a solution such as a hybrid team. According to author Matt Tenney it takes 6 – 9 months’ salary to replace a departed worker. For an employee making 60K, plan it costing 30 – 45K to replace someone who leaves to maintain their remote status with another organization.

4. Maybe your peer Middle Managers do not know how to manage and measure production without actually seeing people at their desks. Suggest your organization provide training on remote managing.

And, if after all your efforts, you are still ordered to return to the office, it is time to switch gears to change management – specifically, finding the What’s In It For Me (WIIFM) for each of your team members and see if you can show them a vision that encourages them to stay with your department.   Our Leading Teams through Change training can help you with that.

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Middle Manager Dilemma #3 – Organizational Change | Middle Management Blog

Cascading Change:

It’s Your Job; Even When You Do Not Like It

By Beth Schaefer

Because IPD launched a new experiential learning course in 2025 – Leading Teams through Change – I have been hyper-focused on change management.  Even though I do not teach the course, I visit with those who take the course, and I know that one of the most difficult parts of middle management is leading change when you do not agree with the change.

As a middle manager, you can:

  1. initiate change (add a new project or team member)
  2. have change bubble up from within your team (improved process or team member retirement)
  3. have an external force generate change (a new law or a new large client)
  4. have an internal force generate change (anything declared by organizational leadership)

During my conversations with those taking the course, middle managers tend to step up to manage the change from the first three items, but the fourth item tends to be viewed as someone else’s problem.  If the organization decides to:

  • return to office
  • cut the budget
  • move to a new location
  • merge us with another department
  • implement new software

then the organization needs to manage that change, not me. They thought it was a good idea; they can figure it out.

I understand the frustration because this is a classic “in the middle” dilemma.  On one hand, you are responsible for the results from your team, and on the other hand, you do not want to feel like a phony person pretending to cheerlead an effort that you do not value or you think is just plain wrong.  How do you maintain credibility with your team, and yet be a team player for the organization?  It is one of the most difficult lines to walk as a middle manager.

Middle Managers are responsible for cascading change. This is my term for helping lead change that is declared by those above you in the organization.  The trick as a middle manager is to perform your job by helping the change cascade down from the CEO’s office (to the VP’s office, to your boss’s office, to your team), and do to it well while avoiding being viewed as a lackey.  You need to do manage the cascading change in an authentic way – even when you disagree with the decision.

Authenticity Tip #1

For me, the first step to being authentic with your team, is to be authentic with your own boss.  If the WHAT and HOW of the change has a negative impact on your team, make sure you talk to your boss about the WHY.  If the WHY does not justify the negative impact, provide some information to your boss to avoid the change or mitigate the risk of the change.  If the WHY is unavoidable, you have the information you need to manage the change with your team.  In both cases, you can honestly tell your team that you communicated the negative impact on their behalf.

Authenticity Tip #2

The next step to being authentic with your team, is to manage your own change.  You may have a supervisor who is helping you move through the change transition, but the more responsibility you have in your role, the more (most likely) you are responsible for managing your own change.  You need to figure out the WIIFM (What’s in it for me?) for yourself and then you need to figure out the WIIFM for your team – maybe even the WIIFM for each of your team members.  And, this is not always easy to do.

Authenticity Tip #3

Consider the alternative.  What happens if you do not cascade change?  You are resentful, bitter, and/or angry with the change announced by your organization.  You refuse to lean into the change and dig in your heels and do nothing to manage your team through the transition.  While your team may initially see your roadblocking as support and rallying, eventually, months of this negativity stew bubbling and swirling creates a downer workplace.  Coming into this downer situation every day will start to take its toll on your team.  Are they really better off fighting the change than they are making the change?  Is this the best way to use your energy and their energy?

Once you play out the long-term cost and effect of “standing up for your team” by refusing to help with the change, you may find that you are not gaining, but losing. While in the short term, seeing the bad decision by leadership create chaos may create some “I told you so” team synergy, eventually, that change will be a daily slog sapping your positive energy if you do not usher your team members through to a new vision.

Authenticity Tip #4

And, let’s not forget that two things can be true at once.  You can be ushering your team through the organization’s decision to a new vision, AND you can still be doing data collection to illustrate the effects of the decision.  By tracking the results of the decision, you (and your fellow middle-manager-change-cascaders) will either see that the decision is working . . . or it’s not.  And, if it’s not, then you can work together to present that information. But, if you never cascade the change and make the transition, then leaders can continually point to how the decision is being sabotaged and not being given a fair shake.

Cascading Change – It’s Not Easy

Of course, many of the statements I have made on how change works are part of the ideal workplace situation.  And, I know that is not always the case. As a middle manager, you can do all the “right” things, but still find yourself and your team in an ongoing bad situation.

Yes, cascading change is easier said than done.  So, here is where I do the shameless plug…take Leading Teams through Change if you need tools to manage change (whether you agree with the change or not) for yourself and your team.

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Middle Manager Dilemma #2 – Why Bother With Performance Evaluations? | Middle Management Blog

Why Do I Bother with Performance Evaluations?

By Beth Schaefer

When I started talking with Middle Managers for this Middle Management Series, performance evaluations (by far) generated the most frustration.  The cause of the frustration was generated differently based on whether or not employees were in labor unions or reward-based positions; however, both groups mostly found time spent doing annual performance evaluations a waste of time.

Your past experience provides context for your current lens.  My past experiences with consistent annual performance evaluations does not equate to improving my work performance. In a previous role, my boss had me complete my own annual evaluation.  And let me tell you, I was a fabulous employee!  Each year I was sent the same form, and each year I changed the date and submitted the exact same evaluation – still fab-u-lous – every time.  If the organization wanted something in my personnel file that found me less than stellar, they would need to write that evaluation themselves.

My experience causes me to ask the following questions on behalf of all Middle Managers.

Are Performance Evaluations Important and Urgent?

I have discussed Covey Quadrants in the past.  Tasks can be important or urgent or both urgent and important.  For me, performance evaluations are neither urgent nor important, and that is what, for me, makes them a waste of time. Since my staff reads these articles (or at least they say they do), I need to be authentic in saying that I am constantly behind on getting their annual performance evaluations completed.

Not Urgent

My staff belong to labor unions.  Raises in their compensation are related to the negotiated labor union agreements and are unrelated to their annual performance reviews.  Therefore, they are not penalized by my lag in completing performance reviews.

Urgent

For some Middle Managers, their annual performance evaluations do affect the compensation of their team.  Ensuring that your team receives raises in a timely manner should make performance evaluations urgent.

Not important

For decades, research indicates that waiting until an annual performance review to address poor performance does not help fix performance issues.  In fact, it can lead to the employee being resentful that they had an unfavorable behavior for months without anyone helping them correct it. The same research also indicates that waiting to highlight quality work at the annual performance review does not lead to employee satisfaction.  To have a positive workplace culture, people want praise that is specific and timely.

Important

For some workers, they need positive ratings on their performance evaluations to receive a raise or a promotion.  Middle Managers who have compensation tools to reward employees do find annual performance evaluations to be productive.

So, if there are organizations where annual performance evaluations are urgent AND important, why do Middle Managers indicate such frustration with them?

My conversations with Middle Managers indicate a bait and switch situation.

Annual Performance Evaluations are a process.   For me, a well-defined process has 3 parts: WHY am I doing it?  WHAT am I doing? And HOW do I do it?  And, this is where the disconnects between the task and the result are taking place.

Why Am I Doing This?

Since research says that performance review does not improve performance, the main purpose of a performance review is to reward high-performing employees.  The problem is that many Middle Managers are going through the process, trying to reward their high-performers and being told NO by the organization.

  1. The organization says No raises or limits the money budgeted to raises which causes Middle Managers to tell their workers there is no reward for being a quality worker.
  2. The organization’s raises are negotiated with the labor union and are unrelated to the performance review.

When annual performance reviews are unrelated to rewards, Middle Managers do not have a WHY to do this work. And, if a stellar review does not lead to more money in a merit-based reward environment, it can lead to your best workers seeking employment elsewhere.

What Am I Doing?

Most annual performance evaluations are completed with a form provided by their organization. My conversations with Middle Managers indicate that forms are consistent and standardized, which means they are hard to use for every, or even, any role.

  1. Middle Managers are often writing in the margins and jerry-rigging the forms to get them to fit the work. They complete the performance review with their employee, but then spend more time going back and forth getting the forms completed rather than talking with the employee.
  2. The completion of the form becomes the goal rather than the actual review. More and more, the forms (now web-based) have more boxes and checkmarks than space to write and truly describe the good work being done.
  3. And, let’s not forget the annual goal-setting part of the form can be out-of-date about 8 weeks after being completed because businesses and business needs change so quickly.

The result is that Middle Managers dread the WHAT that is required by the organization when it comes to performance reviews.

How do I do this?

Conversations with Middle Managers also indicate that the unwritten rules of performance evaluations are an issue.  Often Middle Managers are verbally told evaluation constraints to adhere to that are not shared with employees.  Here are some fairly common unwritten rules.

1. An employee cannot receive all 5’s or all “excellents.”

Even if the employee is stellar, the Middle Manager is not allowed to provide a stellar review; they must find fault.  This strategy can lead to discouraged employees and reduced production – which is the opposite of what a performance review should accomplish.

2. Performance reviews should rank your team

Middle Managers are asked to do comparison reviews.  They are required to rank their team members against each other and provide reviews that reflect this ranking.  This pits teammates against one another and creates the appearance that the Middle Manager is incapable of coaxing exceptional work out of all their team members, or that they do not understand how to get a team to work together for excellence—the opposite of what is needed each day to accomplish work.

3. Your ratings are too high or too low.

Middle Managers rate their own team consistently, but then are told that ratings do not align with other managers in the organization.  They are directed to adjust them to be more in line with the ratings of others managers on evaluations they have never seen.  This leads to a mysterious process, and the mystery devalues the process.

The Evaluation Process can end up being a disruption to getting work done rather than encouraging work be completed on time with high quality.

Middle Managers, have you experienced these obstacles to annual performance reviews?  If so, and if you have discovered a work-around that assists you with annual performance reviews, consider sharing your advice with the rest of us.  IPD will select answers to aggregate and anonymously publish.

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Middle Manager Dilemma #1 – Delegation | Middle Management Blog

Delegation: Take It Up A Level

By Beth Schaefer

Delegation is tough.  To delegate is to entrust another to represent you by assigning them responsibility and authority.  And, raise your hand if you have ever been taught how to delegate your work. Anyone?

A few reasons that delegation is difficult for me include:

  1. Ultimately, I am responsible for what happens in my department/on my team.
  2. I know exactly how I want things done and/or how they should be done because I have done almost all the tasks for my department at one time or another for the past 10 years.
  3. I am an achiever: one of my strengths identified from the Gallup Assessment (have your managers take our course Leading with your Strengths to learn theirs). I know that all strengths can become a weakness if taken to an extreme, and the weakness of the achiever strength is that you can have perfectionist tendencies (see item #2).

Those 3 characteristics are what earned me my leadership role.  Why would I abandon what has helped me to succeed? Therefore, as a Middle Manager, I struggle with how much to delegate and if/when to pull work back if results become an issue.

Realistically, as a Middle Manager, you cannot do all the work; hence, the reason you have a team.  You need to delegate work and balance letting go with keeping an eye on the situation.  Ultimately, you are responsible for the work that your team produces.  And this is tricky; in fact, entire training courses do exist on delegating: IPD has one for your leaders called Adopt a Coaching Attitude.

Recently, I heard a conversation that provided some insight that is helping me shape my day-to-day view on delegation.  And, the insight comes from the sports world. I know, I seldom use sports analogies but stick with me on this because this example will use minimal sports jargon to transfer my observation from sports to the workplace.

My sporty source is Mike Conely, a Minnesota Wolves Timberwolves point guard.  Mike, at age 37, is considered the wise old sage of the team.  On a recent KFAN interview*, he was discussing younger players who lose their composure on the court and are flagged for penalties that can hurt the team.  He said that those younger players need to learn how to “play up a level.”

Play up a level means to look at the bigger picture, the bigger goal, the long-term or even short-term goal, but not at any one single moment.  In a moment on any given day, your people may not be at their best; they may make a mistake; they may make an inefficient choice; they may forget a detail, but it’s a moment – it’s not the whole game; it’s not the whole series; and it’s not the whole season.

This “Play up a Level” view helps me to suppress my micromanaging tendencies and be better at delegating and using “mistake moments” to coach rather than pull work back onto my own plate.  Because we are at work, and not at play, I will change the phrase to “Take it up a level.”  This lens will remind me to coach through the moment with a view to the bigger picture rather than trying to keep doing everything myself.

Since I have been honest about my struggle with delegating, you have already guessed that I am not a delegation expert.  I offered one observation for managing delegation, but I would love to hear from you.  Please fill out the form and share your best tip for delegating work.  IPD will select some delegation strategies to publish in next month’s newsletter.

Also, fill out our standard customized training form to indicate your interest in bringing any of IPD’s workshops to the leaders in your organization.

Please note: At the time of writing this article, the Wolves are playing the LA Lakers in the 2025 play-offs, and I am staying up late to watch games on West Coast time.  This may not have a positive effect on my writing, but it is making me a lot more willing to delegate work!

*Apologies to Mike Conley from the Wolves and Dan Barreiro from KFAN as I was unable to locate the conversation analysis in the podcast bank for a proper citation.

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6 Key Activities That Support Middle Management

By Beth Schaefer

My research from Forbes suggests, “Middle Managers have the potential to drive growth specifically because of their unique position with a company… middle management binds purpose with execution.”

In the second article in the Middle Management Series, I discussed the research supporting the importance of middle managers to an organization. Because of this role’s importance, organizations should intentionally and directly support the people in those roles rather than view them as a “layover” position.

Here are 6 Key Activities organizations can take to build up middle managers and build up their organization’s potential:

  1. Listen to them

And, even better, empower them.  Daily, middle managers observe who and what is working… and who and what is not working.  Ask them to weigh in on decisions and listen to what they say.  Provide them with some latitude to make decisions or execute the organizational goals in a manner that makes sense for their team.  Provide them with training beyond the check-off-the-box meant to save the organization insurance and legal costs and instead pay for professional development that helps them lead their team.

2. Give them credit and respect

Recognize that there isn’t anything wrong with someone who loves their job and does not want to move into C-Suite.  The best leaders are sometimes followers; the best followers are sometimes leaders.  This appears to be a relatively easy concept on the surface, but one that is difficult to juggle within the power dynamic or political climate of an organization.  Middle Managers do this every day.  The best middle managers have the confidence to listen to their team members and to challenge their superiors. Knowing how and when to do both is a nuanced skill that should be respected.

3. Quit measuring success by the number of direct reports

In America, we tend to be about big and bigger: “Value price meals” with extra-large servings; Gawdy stats of individual athletic achievements over the team success; giant SUV’s to transport 1 or 2 people.  It is hard to escape that in America, more equals better, and that quality is often an afterthought. The bigger is better concept is often applied to how middle managers are rewarded.  Someone who has 55 direct reports is paid more than someone who has 34 direct reports who is paid more than someone who has 12 direct reports.  Of course, the natural reaction is, but the 55-report person is doing more work.  The question to ask is, what kind of work?  “Paperwork” and reporting could take most of the time for someone who has 55 direct reports with very little time spent on the actual managing – coaching, communicating, and collaborating. And, most would agree, it’s the “people work” that requires the greater skill.  Put in success measurements that are more than the number of boxes on an organizational chart.

4. Pay for expertise and experience – not organizational chart status

In article 1, I talked about how much I enjoy middle management.  With several years left to work, I have reached my financial peak as a middle manager.  So, unless I choose to move up the organizational chart, my salary will stay the same even as my experience and contributions to the organization grows.  The next layer of leadership shifts into strategy.  While I enjoy using value streams, capability mapping, and the SIPOC to solve problems, I do not want to do hypothetical risk cases and projections all the time.  Reward middle managers for the work they love to do and for their experience of doing it well.

5. Find ways to reward outstanding employees instead of promoting them to management

Most organizations provide one path of financial reward, and it goes through official leadership roles.  This causes people who are experts in research, or selling, or creativity, or coordinating, or engineering, or accounting, or (fill-in-the-black) to leave behind the work they love to do and become a middle manager.  Contrary to this career pathway, being an experienced expert in a specific skill does not necessarily make you good at leadership. Being a good leader is about collaboration, coaching, and communication and often has very little to do with the actual skill and expertise that is valued in the current role.   Every day, somewhere in America, an organization is promoting people into leadership roles as a “reward” when, in fact, they are setting up many of those people for failure, and, indirectly, their teams and organizations for failure too.  Do not use Middle Management as a reward for those who do not really want to be leaders.

6. Pay for Professional Development

I know; I work for an organization that sells professional development.  The reason I do this work is because l believe in its value, but you do not need to go by me – plenty of research will tell you the same thing.  Providing professional development for leaders is critical because leadership challenges are not static.   While some challenges, such as team collaboration, remain perennially relevant, new leadership issues do surface.  For instance, most workplaces now have 4 generations of workers.  Or the latest leadership challenge of when and how to incorporate Artificial Intelligence (AI) and train your team to use it effectively and ethically. Learning about leadership is not just “one and done.”

Ideally, organizations will look at how they structure and support middle management roles so that they can contribute to growing the organization.  However, judging from the number of people I have heard from since starting this series (Middle Managers Part 1), it appears that middle managers find themselves in situations with difficult choices.  The next set of articles will explore common middle managers’ dilemmas and some action suggestions that middle managers can take to navigate them.

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Importance of Middle Managers

Middle Managers are the crème in the Oreos® of the workplace.  They are the delightful, yet functional, filling that connects the two cookie wafers: workers and leadership.

Think about that classic cookie without the filling. That is what an organization is without Middle Management –  two cookies that are disconnected.  You can press them together, but… they will not stick, and might even crumble.

Here are the Top 6 benefits your organization receives through middle managers:

1. Middle Managers Drive Growth.

Middle managers provide purpose to their team.  Feeling connected to the purpose of the organization is one of the best ways to engage a productive workforce. Middle Managers pace work for consistent production that builds resiliency against stress and prevents burnout. A respected Middle Manger can request extra from their team when needed and get it. Middle Managers can foster worker relationships and create high-performing teams, or teach employees how to slack off and not get caught, or be a jerk and create a disenfranchised workforce that results in mediocre products and customer service. That is why it is important to support Middle Managers (strategies to do this in the next article).

2. Middle Managers Set the Tone of the Work Environment.

Some organizational culture trickles down from the top, but it can be reinforced or undermined by a savvy Middle Manager. They set the expectations. The best Middle Managers model respect, kindness, and grace.  They coach their teams to do the same. They find the right time and place to address bad behaviors that can infect the team, nipping them in the bud. Ultimately, their treatment of employees makes the organization either a desirable place to work or one that workers want to leave.

3.Middle Managers Provide Reality Checks.

Timelines, projects, and processes often look good on paper, but they do not tell the tale of the unintended consequence: the fallout when someone who makes a decision is unaware of all the stakeholders or processes affected.  An unintended consequence could result in a process hiccup or an epic fail.  An effective Middle Manager can diplomatically push back on the organization when administrative decisions come with unintended consequences, keeping their organizations on track and running smoothly.

4.Middle Managers are the Organization’s Moral Compass.

While organizations often hire consultants to facilitate leadership’s writing of mission, vision, and values statements, it is the Middle Managers who live it and model it for all employees.  The true culture of the organization is not in the written words, but in the everyday living. Employees watch middle management for how closely their behaviors align with the espoused values.  They listen to Middle Managers explain how the administration’s decisions are connected to (or disconnected from) their mission statement.  Middle Manager’s actions can reveal their feelings about the organization.  Are they trusted leaders or a bunch of phonies who say one thing but do another?  Middle Managers guide the moral and ethical decisions of their entire team.

5.Middle Managers Put the Human in Human Resources

Administration writes policies about human resources or human capital.  These policies provide necessary governance of humans in the workplace, but it is the Middle Managers who put the humanity into the workplace.  Effective Middle Managers take time to listen to individual workers and address their challenges. They are the ones aware of workers who are sick or grieving or struggling for any number of reasons. They know which resources to offer and provide assistance at the moment it is needed.

6.Middle Managers Build Succession and Loyalty.

Middle Managers coach, mentor, and nurture the next generation of leaders.  Through the delegation of work, they can provide low-risk opportunities for their workers to practice leadership.  They can model decision-making, using clear communication, and accepting responsibility for their actions. They can give credit to their teams instead of making themselves look good.  They can build trust with the workforce by being authentic with problems and not being trite or flippant when work is challenging.

The daily decisions and interactions of Middle Managers are the brushstrokes and colors that compose an organization’s painting.

Provide Leading Teams Through Change to your organization to support your Middle Managers.

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Stuck In the Middle

Hello, My name is Beth Schaefer, and I am in middle management.

This may not seem like a terrible admission, but… for those of us who find our passion in middle management, we can also find ourselves on the receiving end of sideways glances and whispers…

  • What is wrong with her? She has been in that same role for 10 years!
  • Why haven’t they been promoted?
  • I thought he was going to apply for the next level once his kids were in school, but he still hasn’t made a move.
  • Why would anyone want to stay in that job instead of going for more money?

I cannot answer that last question for everyone, but for me, I like the combination of leading and mentoring still mixed with project work and task completion alongside regular communication and relationships with the people who benefit from our products and services.

And, I believe, there are others like me.

For those of us in the American Middle Management role who say, I like what I do.  I do not want to be constantly pursuing the next level, there is a danger of being labeled a “slacker” or an underachiever. Middle Management is often viewed as a bridge from beginning supervision to Leadership.  It is not considered a career goal; it is seen as a means to an end.  So, when I, and others like me, make no attempt to apply for the next rung on the ladder, it raises eyebrows… and suspicions.

The question Stuck in the Middle? is not self-help to move out of middle management, but rather questions if we need to see being in Middle Management as being stuck at all.

I say Nay. (Cue your own patriotic or inspirational music here).

I say it is time for Middle Managers to stand proud and be respected. Because, frankly, we are important to our organizations, and we navigate really difficult and complex situations that benefit the organizations we work for. This past week, I have mentioned this topic and the challenges I believe middle managers face to my neighbor and walking partner, my bar trivia partner, my friend who is a high school department chair, and one of my IPD instructors.  They each gave me additional challenges they thought should be addressed based on their personal experiences with managing in the middle!  It seems the complexities of middle management are a shared experience – as I suspected (based on this small anecdotal sampling).

This series, Stuck in the Middle? will focus on the specific dilemmas faced by middle management with strategies to navigate them and will wrap up with what upper management can do to support the essential work of middle managers.

When will this series wrap up?  Who knows?  It depends on how many more middle management challenges pour in.

And Kudos to all you middle managers out there.  You have my respect.

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Stop the World #3 | I Want to Catch Up

Stop the World; I Want to Get Off  Catch Up

Beth Schaefer IPD Director  

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This series on Stop the World has been about taking time to do Important and Innovative work.

I know, easier said than done. Time is a limited resource.  Even if you work overtime, you still only have 24 hours in a day.  You cannot create time, but you can control how you spend your time.  This is what is meant by time management.

You may already do some of these time management strategies, but maybe you will be sparked by a new idea or two.  I am presenting these in “David Letterman countdown style” – starting with most difficult for me to practice on a consistent basis and ending with the one I do the most.

#8 – Write Down Process

I find it is easier to delegate tasks or ask for help if the process I use is written down.  It allows me to easily hand off work knowing the person has direction/instructions.  I will not lie; documenting process takes time to do.  Because it takes time, this makes it the most challenging way for me to manage time.  However, once you get some processes defined, it really allows for teamwork.  Others can help you when work piles up, and you can help them when their work piles up. As an added bonus, documented processes used by more than one person have a better chance  being streamlined, and that streamlining absolutely helps you manage time.

#7 – Prioritize

Prioritizing does not help you complete all your work; it just helps you kick some of the work cans down the road, but they are still down there waiting for you.   This is why prioritizing work does not always feel like a time management win.  However, it can be a win because when you keep kicking the work can down the road, these things can happen before you see that can again:

  • Someone else has completed the work
  • The initiative stalls out, and the project manager moves all the due dates to later
  • A new leader comes in, and the whole initiative goes away

Kicking the can is effective if you choose wisely.

#6 – Be Realistic With Your Time

The first step to being realistic with your time is to actually think through how much time it takes you to do tasks.

Does this scenario sound familiar?:

  1. You make a list of things you want to get done that day.
  2. You do not calculate how long the tasks will take and make the assumption they will all get done.
  3. You do not allow time for any “fires” that may occur that day.
  4. As the clock ticks towards 5, you start to panic and decide “what needs to get done” that day.

To combat the end-of-day panic, take a beat to think about how much time a task will take.  For instance, when I facilitate a meeting, I do not just schedule time to run the meeting, but time to prep the meeting, and time to do the meeting follow-up actions.  This technique really emphasizes how much time meetings actually take.  It also makes sure that when you take people’s time for meetings, you are prepared which respects their busyness, and it causes you to think twice about the usefulness of your meetings.

#5 – Get Rid of Meetings

Because meetings are more than the meeting time — they are the prep time, the follow-up communications, the time to get to the meeting (or logged into the virtual meetings), and time for the meeting-after-the-meeting meetings — meetings eat more time than you may realize.  If you attend meetings that are not useful, consider asking your supervisor to let you skip those meetings stating what work you would be able to complete during that time.  If you are the one scheduling all the meetings that have no purpose, well… you know the answer already.

The reason this time-saver is not higher on the list in terms of easy-to-do is because meetings can be more about work completion.  For my remote team, the meeting is about connection that fuels collaboration and support for one another.  The better you understand the purpose of a meeting, the more you can determine the value of the time.  Balance efficiency with relationships.

#4 – Limit Your Time

Time blocking – setting aside a pre-designated block of time for a specific task – can be quite effective for time management on some tasks. Time-blocking a task can help you focus and work more efficiently. (This is your reminder that most research indicates that multi-tasking is a fallacy).  The time pressure can motivate you to persist on challenging tasks.  Time-blocking can be especially helpful on “black hole” activities such as research, cleaning out email, or innovation and idea-generation.  If you reach the end of the time without sufficient progress, then schedule another time-block for another day and move onto other work.

#3 – Do NOT Be a Perfectionist

Those of you who know me well are saying, “Really?” Yes, I am definitely a recovering perfectionist. The pandemic taught me to let go of perfection.  We needed to punt all the time during the pandemic, and people were really gracious when things did not go as planned.  This showed me that perfectionism is overrated. I have learned to embrace the concept of “good enough.”

Let’s be clear – you cannot approach your work with a “whatever” attitude all of the time.  That is just being a slacker.  Good enough is about picking and choosing moments to accept good instead of great. In a Reddit thread, someone suggested prioritizing tasks by thinking about what adds value to customers and what does not.  If a task does not add value to a customer, figure out how to “half-ass” it. This should be used judiciously, but it can still be an effective time management strategy.

#2 – Work From Home When Needed

Working without meetings or messages or interruptions or chit chat at the water cooler is a great way to get more work done, so stay home and spend the day focusing on the work that needs your deepest concentration. This is easy for me as part of a remote office; however, I started this practice prior to working remotely.  This technique is very similar to time-blocking because you are dedicated to getting specific tasks completed while at home.  For me, the tasks that I get the most value in tackling from my kitchen counter are the ones that take large chunks of time and complex thinking to complete.  Researching and writing these articles are in that category, along with annual budgeting. High-concentration tasks can vary depending on your aptitudes.

Some tips to make this work. Put on your out-of-office, silence your phone, and log out of pop-up Teams messages. If you must be in the office, try closing the office door or finding an alcove in the lunchroom and put on your headphones.  Also practice a do-not-bother-me face so that just a glance can deter interruptions.

And the easiest way for me to manage time…

#1 – Use a To-Do List

This seems basic but many people do not use lists to organize and prioritize work tasks.  I started making lists as soon as I could hold a crayon in my hand, so I have nearly perfected my method. I end each week with my to-do list for the next week.

While this takes 1 – 2 hours of my time, I also take this time to:

  1. Complete any task that I can do in less time than it takes me to write down on my to-do list.
  2. Tap coworkers or clients who owe me completed tasks for my projects to move forward.
  3. Determine if a project needs a status meeting to move forward and get it on the project team’s calendar for the next week.

I know that using my own brain to generate my to-do list each week is old-school; however, my language arts teacher background tells me that writing is one of the best ways to create order out of chaos.  Organizing information (whether handwritten or typed, whether essay or table or list) is thinking.  Creating the to-do list is my own way of taking time each week to think holistically about the work/goals/purpose of IPD.

For me, not enough time is one of my biggest stressors at work.  I am always balancing time in terms of what I need to complete for my team and clients with what I need to check off my list to feel less stress about my job to the time I should spend away from work for a healthy life.

While this Top 8 list provides some strategies for managing time, you may still feel guilty about the steps you take to balance your work time and your personal time. Here are a couple of statistics that can ease your guilt:

  • Research indicates that once you put it more than 50 hours a week, your production decreases to the point of being pointless to work.
  • Americans are towards the top of the list for working more hours in comparison with other countries with an advanced economy. Americans also suffer more health issues and higher insurance costs related to work than any other country with an advanced economy.  So, save your organization insurance costs and work less.

Sidebar

As part of my research, I was curious about the phrase, Stop the world – I want to get off.  Turns out it is the title of a musical from the 60’s.   Set in a circus, it is the life journey of a young boy, who stops the show to have sidebar conversations with the audience every time something disastrous happens in his life.  As an intelligent reading audience, I will leave you to draw your own connections between the workplace and the circus and add your own sidebar comments.

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